Ep.253 - Host Rosevelt answers questions from listeners - Part 2

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[00:01:44] Well, I was supposed to release a couple episodes last week, but if you've been following Florida's weather, we had a hurricane that was forming down near Central America.

[00:02:01] And at first, the shit was going to come. It was going to be a major hurricane.

[00:02:06] See, you guys think I'd be bullshitting when I'd be talking about hurricanes and stuff.

[00:02:11] This shit is for real.

[00:02:13] I had a co-worker that moved from Chicago.

[00:02:18] She took the position.

[00:02:21] I think she was from Chicago.

[00:02:22] Anyway.

[00:02:24] And we had the two hurricanes back to back.

[00:02:26] You remember that?

[00:02:27] I talked about that a couple weeks ago.

[00:02:30] So, she evacuated, right?

[00:02:32] She went through the first hurricane.

[00:02:34] The second one came.

[00:02:36] She evacuated.

[00:02:37] She told everybody.

[00:02:38] I think I already talked about this, but anyway.

[00:02:41] She told everybody, okay, I see you in a couple days.

[00:02:45] And then she called back and said, no, I'm not coming back.

[00:02:51] And I'm not mad at her.

[00:02:53] I'm not mad at her.

[00:02:55] This shit is not normal for somebody to go through.

[00:02:59] You know, for you to go through some shit like this every year, you're insane.

[00:03:03] I see these people who lost their homes or water was in their homes above their heads.

[00:03:09] And they just gut the house and build it back.

[00:03:13] And you know, you're going to go through that shit again eventually.

[00:03:17] You might skip one, two, maybe three years.

[00:03:20] But eventually, the shit going to happen again.

[00:03:25] So, I'm sorry.

[00:03:26] If you live in Florida, your ass is insane.

[00:03:30] I'm getting the fuck out of here.

[00:03:31] But anyway.

[00:03:33] It was another hurricane out there.

[00:03:37] And I was very worried.

[00:03:38] I thought I was going to have to go home today and put up my parents' stuff again.

[00:03:45] You know, because they say it was going to hit here by Wednesday.

[00:03:50] And so, I thought I was going to have to go home.

[00:03:54] And then it took a short.

[00:03:56] I was like, damn, this is November.

[00:03:58] Usually, by October, those hurricanes are gone.

[00:04:01] The water is cooler.

[00:04:02] And we had cold fronts coming to kind of kill that kind of stuff.

[00:04:05] But the water is still warm this time of year.

[00:04:10] Global warming.

[00:04:13] Or longer than usual.

[00:04:14] So, you know, we still had a hurricane looming down there in Central America.

[00:04:18] So, it was supposed to come up and really fuck up Florida.

[00:04:22] All the early models.

[00:04:25] But what happened, it interacted with Central America and the Yucatan.

[00:04:29] And so, the land interaction killed it.

[00:04:32] So, now it's just a low, you know, a bunch of rain.

[00:04:39] So, you know, the threat is gone.

[00:04:41] But that's why I didn't release those episodes.

[00:04:43] Because I was freaking out again.

[00:04:46] I was like, you know, because you're not, you know, everybody right now in the holiday mode.

[00:04:52] And, you know, putting up Christmas shit and getting ready for Thanksgiving.

[00:04:56] Then prelude into Christmas.

[00:04:58] You know, we're in the Burmuts, baby.

[00:05:00] We're about no damn hurricane.

[00:05:03] So, that fucked everybody up.

[00:05:05] You know, no one fucked me up.

[00:05:08] So, it really pressed the gas on convincing myself that I really have to get the fuck out of here.

[00:05:16] This is ridiculous.

[00:05:18] Going through this shit every year.

[00:05:22] Florida is not what it cracked up to me, folks.

[00:05:24] I'm telling you, it is not.

[00:05:27] A lot of people say, oh, you're just talking about this.

[00:05:29] Florida is beautiful.

[00:05:31] I mean, how long can you go to the beach?

[00:05:34] How long can you lay your ass on the beach?

[00:05:38] You're going to move to a state that is expensive.

[00:05:42] Anyway.

[00:05:44] I'm getting the fuck out of here.

[00:05:46] You motherfuckers didn't have Florida.

[00:05:49] I'm getting out of here.

[00:05:50] And I'm not going to look back.

[00:05:52] If it weren't for my mom who's still here, I would never come out to this motherfucker.

[00:05:59] My brother and sister, they say, you better get on a plane and come see me.

[00:06:05] Because if it weren't for my mom, you know, when I leave, I would never come back to this bitch.

[00:06:10] I hate this state.

[00:06:12] From the time when I was little, I always hated Miami and, you know, in Florida and all this shit.

[00:06:22] You know, so anyway.

[00:06:26] I don't vent it enough.

[00:06:30] All right.

[00:06:31] So this is part two of some questions that I had from some listeners.

[00:06:36] A few questions.

[00:06:37] I didn't finish the last time.

[00:06:38] So I said that I would finish on the second part two.

[00:06:44] And that's what I'm doing.

[00:06:45] So that's what this is.

[00:06:48] The second part of my question session.

[00:06:55] All right.

[00:07:00] So this is from Rachel.

[00:07:03] Rachel says, my husband chose to work for our 30th anniversary day.

[00:07:10] I took vacation, but he he did.

[00:07:16] But he backed out at last minute and decided to work.

[00:07:19] Is that messed up or am I overreacting?

[00:07:23] Rachel, absolutely not.

[00:07:25] You are not overreacting.

[00:07:29] That's fucked up.

[00:07:33] Unfortunately, you know, when I've seen through out my years.

[00:07:39] The longer a couple is married or together.

[00:07:43] Sometimes it's easy for one of those members not.

[00:07:48] You know, it's not always demand is the woman sometimes as well.

[00:07:52] But it's easy for one member of the relationship, whether it be a relationship or marriage.

[00:07:59] To start taking another one for granted.

[00:08:03] To be married for one year is a feat nowadays.

[00:08:10] Five years, 10 years.

[00:08:12] But if you've been married 30 years.

[00:08:15] That's something you celebrate.

[00:08:17] You put everything on hold.

[00:08:19] And you know, you tell your work or whatever.

[00:08:23] Hey, I got my 30th anniversary.

[00:08:25] I'm taking off.

[00:08:27] I will see you guys later.

[00:08:30] I got to celebrate with my wife.

[00:08:32] I got to celebrate with my husband.

[00:08:36] So.

[00:08:37] Yeah, Rachel, your husband fucked up.

[00:08:40] He put his job before you.

[00:08:45] And.

[00:08:47] That is.

[00:08:49] That's really unacceptable.

[00:08:51] You know, that's that.

[00:08:52] That should never happen.

[00:08:53] A lot of people when that kind of thing happens.

[00:08:57] Rachel didn't mention.

[00:08:59] Any of her emotions or anything.

[00:09:01] But I guarantee you she was hurt from it.

[00:09:03] She might have not told him.

[00:09:06] You know, he probably asked her.

[00:09:07] And do you mind?

[00:09:09] She say no, no, I don't mind.

[00:09:10] But she did.

[00:09:12] She did.

[00:09:13] She did.

[00:09:15] Because I know I would.

[00:09:17] And, you know, I would expect for something like that.

[00:09:21] Where you spend your 30 years together.

[00:09:24] That's that's important.

[00:09:25] I know a lot of you are saying, well, you can always celebrate it the next week.

[00:09:29] Yeah, but that ain't the same.

[00:09:32] You can always work the next week.

[00:09:34] Shit.

[00:09:35] The job not going nowhere.

[00:09:37] That's not the same.

[00:09:39] You know.

[00:09:41] Pushing your shit off for your job.

[00:09:44] I don't know why people do or sacrifice so much for their job.

[00:09:50] When a lot of jobs will fire your ass before the sun rise.

[00:09:59] Or they'll fire you before you sweat at night.

[00:10:03] I mean, meaning that they have no.

[00:10:07] They'll fire you quickly.

[00:10:09] And won't worry about it.

[00:10:11] And so many people are so loyal to their jobs.

[00:10:15] And the jobs are not loyal to them.

[00:10:18] They don't give a fuck about you.

[00:10:20] They'll fire your ass for the same $2 on the bottom line.

[00:10:23] So I don't know why a lot of people are so loyal to their jobs.

[00:10:28] I learned a long time ago.

[00:10:30] Job, it pays me.

[00:10:32] But I'm not putting it above my life and my family.

[00:10:36] Because they don't.

[00:10:37] They don't give a fuck about me.

[00:10:38] You know.

[00:10:39] They'll fire my ass in a minute for bullshit.

[00:10:43] You know.

[00:10:44] Oh, we got to cut back $1,000.

[00:10:48] So I got to let you go.

[00:10:49] Sorry.

[00:10:50] So anyway.

[00:10:52] Rachel.

[00:10:52] Yeah, that's fucked up.

[00:10:53] I would have never done that to my wife.

[00:10:56] If it was our 30th anniversary.

[00:10:58] I would have made a big thing out of it.

[00:11:01] And a lot of you say, well, Roosevelt everybody not the same.

[00:11:04] Well, okay.

[00:11:05] I understand that.

[00:11:05] You don't have to make a big thing out of it.

[00:11:07] But at least acknowledge the feat.

[00:11:12] Right?

[00:11:12] Acknowledge the big accomplishment of 30 years of marriage.

[00:11:17] That's major.

[00:11:18] See, a lot of you ignorant motherfuckers out there who are listening.

[00:11:22] Don't see how significant that is.

[00:11:25] Because you've been divorced.

[00:11:26] You haven't been married for 30 years.

[00:11:29] And a lot of you motherfuckers been divorced more than twice.

[00:11:32] So you don't see the significance of being married together that long.

[00:11:39] That's a feat.

[00:11:41] That's a, that's a awesome, you know, level to get at within a marriage.

[00:11:48] 30 years.

[00:11:50] You know, 20 years is good.

[00:11:51] 10 years is good.

[00:11:54] 30.

[00:11:54] That's three decades.

[00:11:57] And that's something that should be celebrated.

[00:11:59] That's not light.

[00:12:00] You know, so.

[00:12:02] So Rachel, yeah, you do fucked up.

[00:12:04] I hope he made it up to you.

[00:12:06] But it sounds like he probably won't.

[00:12:11] You know, but I don't know because you didn't elaborate too much in your letter.

[00:12:17] But hopefully you're listening to this and you're, you are, you make him do something for you guys 30 years.

[00:12:23] That's something that needs to be celebrated.

[00:12:25] And that shouldn't be taken lightly.

[00:12:28] All right.

[00:12:31] You know, it's funny.

[00:12:32] Another thing.

[00:12:33] A lot of guys who are single now wish they had a wife.

[00:12:37] For 30 years or 20 years, 10 years, five years, a year.

[00:12:42] You know, someone to celebrate their love with.

[00:12:45] And you know, you got these silly motherfuckers walking around who've been married for 30 years and doing dumb shit like that.

[00:12:52] So, you know, just take it for granted.

[00:12:55] You know, a lot of guys take for granted.

[00:12:56] A lot of women take for granted too.

[00:12:58] So it's not, it's both sides, but people start taking each other for granted.

[00:13:02] And that's a big problem in marriages these days.

[00:13:05] When, when one side started taking the other side for granted.

[00:13:11] And that's a lot of, of cause of divorces nowadays.

[00:13:17] All right.

[00:13:19] Next one from Dylan.

[00:13:23] Dylan says, I've been dating my girlfriend for over five years.

[00:13:28] And she's pressuring me for marriage.

[00:13:31] Should I dump her?

[00:13:34] Well, Dylan, yes.

[00:13:36] If you're not going to marry the woman, you should dump her.

[00:13:39] Stop wasting her time.

[00:13:42] You motherfuckers like you are the reason why it makes a lot of guys look bad.

[00:13:49] Um, you know, because women think all guys are like you.

[00:13:55] And, you know, that's, that's, that's not the case.

[00:13:58] Um, you should make it, obviously you didn't make it clear to her that.

[00:14:04] You had no intentions of being married.

[00:14:07] Um, cause if you ever met her after five years, you have no intentions, you know, getting married.

[00:14:14] That's something you should have been honest and upfront when told her that, look, I'm just kicking it.

[00:14:19] You know, I'm never getting married.

[00:14:22] And then it had been on her, you know, because she, you already upfront and you told her this, but it doesn't sound like you did.

[00:14:30] It sounds like you, you know, left it, you know, open to where, you know, you don't really have to say nothing.

[00:14:41] You just getting free milk and your girlfriend's a pussy cow.

[00:14:47] That's a, that's from a, another previous episode.

[00:14:49] I think it's 11.

[00:14:52] Check it out.

[00:14:52] Or 13.

[00:14:53] One of the, where basically a woman is with a guy.

[00:14:57] Wasting all her youth, giving all that free pussy away, you know, all that free milk to a motherfucker who's never going to marry.

[00:15:05] That sounds like you Dylan.

[00:15:07] You sound like a cowboy.

[00:15:09] And, um, your girlfriend sounds like a pussy cow and, you know, give me all that free pussy for nothing.

[00:15:15] Um, so I think we need to stop doing that.

[00:15:19] If you're not going to marry her, I don't know how old she is.

[00:15:21] I don't know how old you are.

[00:15:23] Um, you know, but if you're, you know, especially if you're older, like your mid thirties, late thirties and up, if you're not going to marry her, tell her, tell her you're not, you'll never marry.

[00:15:37] You're not looking to marry anyone.

[00:15:39] Let her go.

[00:15:40] Um, it'll be hard at first.

[00:15:40] Oh, cause it sounds like she wants to get married and she wasting time, precious time with your ass.

[00:15:48] Then it's not a good thing.

[00:15:50] And she look around.

[00:15:51] You already been dating for five years.

[00:15:54] She look around another five.

[00:15:55] If you're on this 10 years, she wasted with your ass and you don't intend on marrying her.

[00:16:00] So yes, you should dump her.

[00:16:02] If you don't want to marry her, let her go.

[00:16:06] Let her go.

[00:16:08] Um, it'd be hard at first on her.

[00:16:10] Um, you know, but it is in the long run, it'd be better because she won't be waiting around for something that's not going to happen.

[00:16:19] So be up, you know, be a firm, be honest, let her go.

[00:16:23] You know, you don't want to marry.

[00:16:23] That's fine.

[00:16:25] You know, and you don't want to get married.

[00:16:27] You've been coding for five years.

[00:16:29] I know a lot of you say, Oh, Rose, that's not true.

[00:16:32] We dated for 10 years and we got married.

[00:16:34] Well, good for you.

[00:16:36] It's always motherfuckers always talking shit.

[00:16:39] It's always exceptions to the rule.

[00:16:42] If you don't get married after five years, I would say the chances of you getting married is slim and nil.

[00:16:49] You know, you know, you can marry someone after the first year.

[00:16:52] It shouldn't take that long, especially if you're older, you know, mid thirties, late thirties and, and up.

[00:16:59] It shouldn't take that long.

[00:17:01] It don't take no fucking five years, you know.

[00:17:04] So after five years, if you haven't gotten married, let her go.

[00:17:08] Let her go.

[00:17:09] Let her start the process of breaking up and getting over you and finding someone that actually wants to get married like she does.

[00:17:19] All right.

[00:17:23] All right.

[00:17:23] Next one.

[00:17:25] Carol.

[00:17:28] Carol says, why is it so hard to find the right mate?

[00:17:32] All I want is someone making six figures.

[00:17:37] Really good shape.

[00:17:39] Six, five.

[00:17:42] And loves to eat pussy.

[00:17:44] What is wrong with men?

[00:17:48] And I am 42 and I'm having this problem.

[00:17:51] What is wrong with men?

[00:17:54] Well, that's interesting.

[00:17:57] Carol.

[00:17:57] I think the problem is not men is your ass.

[00:18:03] You're crazy.

[00:18:04] Silly ass.

[00:18:05] See, you've answered the question in your question.

[00:18:10] You say, what's wrong, man?

[00:18:12] All you, you know, you're looking for.

[00:18:13] Why can't you find the perfect mate?

[00:18:15] You know why?

[00:18:16] Because you're looking for.

[00:18:18] Now you're 42.

[00:18:20] You're 42.

[00:18:21] So you're way beyond your prime.

[00:18:24] Yet you're still looking for someone who's making six figures.

[00:18:29] You're looking for someone who's in great shape.

[00:18:33] And you're looking for someone who's six, five.

[00:18:35] You have cut out probably 95% of the pool of eligible men that you, that you can date and perhaps get married and start a life with.

[00:18:48] You have cut out 95 or more percent of the men because you're looking for someone who making six figures.

[00:18:55] A lot of men are not making six figures.

[00:18:57] I don't know where you women get that shit from.

[00:19:00] Where do you get that shit from?

[00:19:04] Back in the day, women, if the guy was breathing, they would, they work with you.

[00:19:11] They work with you, you know, and educate.

[00:19:13] Well, I know a lot of women in my neighborhood where I grew up in that were teachers.

[00:19:20] I know that, you know, that would educated women and their husbands were custodians and painters and electricians, you know, blue collar workers.

[00:19:29] And they still got with them and had families and had a nice life.

[00:19:35] I don't know where you fucking women get that shit from that a man should be making six figures.

[00:19:41] It's nice, but everybody don't make that shit.

[00:19:46] Everybody don't make six figures.

[00:19:48] And why would you diminish your chances with a man just because he's not making six figures?

[00:19:54] You don't know what he's going to do in the future.

[00:19:57] He could write a book.

[00:20:00] He could run his own plumbing company.

[00:20:03] You know, he could be a plumber and, and open up plumbing franchises, and then he'd be making well over six figures.

[00:20:09] You don't know what the future is.

[00:20:12] And if you get together with the right guy who can handle his money, you don't need six figures.

[00:20:20] All you need is someone who is willing to work for you, work for the family, and is a good provider.

[00:20:28] And you too can handle that shit.

[00:20:30] You don't need someone making six figures.

[00:20:34] There's so many women today that are single because they're looking for a man that are making six figures.

[00:20:46] Six figures.

[00:20:48] They're looking, especially black women.

[00:20:49] I hate to single the sisters out like that.

[00:20:53] And I know a lot of you don't like that shit, but I don't, you know, I don't give a fuck.

[00:20:57] That's the truth.

[00:21:00] That's the truth.

[00:21:01] And I'm not saying that white women don't and Hispanic women don't and all, you know, you know, they do as well.

[00:21:07] You always have exceptions to the rule.

[00:21:10] You always have silly motherfuckers in every race.

[00:21:13] But for the most part, a lot of sisters, a lot of sisters, I mean, that's a definite requirement.

[00:21:20] You got to make six figures to even date them.

[00:21:24] And a lot of guys do not make six figures.

[00:21:28] A lot of good men don't make six figures.

[00:21:33] It's just not going to happen.

[00:21:34] It's not going to ever happen, you know, because of occupations they're in and because of the education level, whatever the case may be.

[00:21:42] They'll never see six figures, but they're good with their money.

[00:21:46] They're good budgeting.

[00:21:47] They're good providers and they good at treating the women with love and being a good father figure if given a chance.

[00:21:54] But they don't get the chance because they're not making six figures.

[00:21:58] I know a lot of guys making six figures who are assholes straight up.

[00:22:04] I've told someone I said, man, you're an asshole.

[00:22:07] She take that shit from you.

[00:22:09] Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

[00:22:11] You know, because they know that women base.

[00:22:15] If they're a good man or not, if they make it six figures or what kind of car they drive and what watch they wear and what color their shoes and all this other bullshit.

[00:22:26] Women are looking for the wrong things.

[00:22:31] I'm not sure.

[00:22:31] Including you, Carol.

[00:22:32] So that's your first problem.

[00:22:34] You said that you're looking for all you see all you want is someone who's making six figures as like that's something small.

[00:22:43] That's that's very hard to find.

[00:22:45] That's gonna be damn impossible to find a man is making six figures.

[00:22:49] So that's your first mistake.

[00:22:50] You cannot a lot of eligible bachelors just by saying that requiring them to make six figures.

[00:22:58] I don't know where you women get that shit from.

[00:23:01] And then you say you want them in really good shape.

[00:23:04] Now, you're 42.

[00:23:05] I don't know how good shape you and maybe you can see me a picture, but I don't give a fuck if you find this, you know, grease.

[00:23:12] I mean, you got a six pack.

[00:23:14] You can't expect the man that is around your age to be in tip top shape.

[00:23:20] I'm not saying it's impossible.

[00:23:23] It is very possible.

[00:23:26] You know, a lot of guys still run and work out and shit, but a lot of guys don't at that age.

[00:23:32] You're 42.

[00:23:33] So you're looking for someone who's 42 40 45 around that age 50.

[00:23:38] They might not have a six pack anymore.

[00:23:41] They might have a you know, one pack.

[00:23:47] You know, you know, they just not in the shape that they were when they were in high school and college.

[00:23:55] So that's something you just have to accept.

[00:23:59] That's just something you have to accept, baby.

[00:24:02] You might not meet someone your age.

[00:24:06] Who was in tip top shape.

[00:24:08] That's going to be very difficult to find.

[00:24:11] And I'm gonna tell you something this on another tangent guys.

[00:24:16] Your age probably don't even want you anyway.

[00:24:21] I'm gonna say that again.

[00:24:22] Let me back up hit rewind guys.

[00:24:25] Your age you single.

[00:24:27] They don't want you anyway.

[00:24:29] Carol.

[00:24:30] No matter how fine you are or what kind of money you making and I big your titties.

[00:24:36] You know, whatever the case may be.

[00:24:38] They don't want you anyway.

[00:24:39] A lot of guys that age probably divorced and they're looking for earlier models or later models.

[00:24:47] I should say.

[00:24:48] So they look at someone who came that was born in the 80s, not to 70s.

[00:24:54] So they don't want your ass anyway.

[00:24:56] So the pool is already.

[00:24:58] I say that to say this.

[00:24:59] The pool is already small.

[00:25:03] With guys who are your age, you're looking for to get married and you're diminishing it even further by requiring all this bullshit.

[00:25:14] Talking about you want a guy to make six figures and who's in good shape.

[00:25:19] And then you round it off with a guy that's at least six five.

[00:25:27] Carol, Carol, Carol, Carol.

[00:25:28] You have to change.

[00:25:29] That's why you're not being a good man.

[00:25:31] Because you're requiring all this bullshit out front and you're cutting out a lot of eligible good men from you even having a chance at because you're cutting away with all this bullshit.

[00:25:45] Requiring six figures, requiring them to be in good shape at six five.

[00:25:50] Come on.

[00:25:52] You have to be realistic.

[00:25:55] Realistic.

[00:25:57] You have to be realistic.

[00:25:59] You can't expect a man your age.

[00:26:03] You know, that's around your age.

[00:26:07] To have all this bullshit you talking.

[00:26:11] I guarantee you if you require a man, if you forget about the six figures stuff, just say a steady job.

[00:26:17] That's all you need.

[00:26:19] Just say a steady job.

[00:26:21] You know.

[00:26:23] Average height.

[00:26:24] You know, forget about that six five shit.

[00:26:27] Average height.

[00:26:29] You know, oh shit.

[00:26:30] Even short.

[00:26:31] At this point in your life, you should be willing to get with a short motherfucker.

[00:26:37] You women have just too much shit that you look at.

[00:26:41] You disqualify so many good men.

[00:26:43] Then you complain that there's no good man.

[00:26:46] When you passing many of the good men every day.

[00:26:50] But you don't see them because they're too short.

[00:26:52] They're not making the money that you think they should be making.

[00:26:56] They're not in good enough shape.

[00:26:59] You're passing up all these good opportunities to be happy.

[00:27:03] But you're miserable because you require men to have all this bullshit that don't matter.

[00:27:10] Carol ease up.

[00:27:11] Throw that six figure shit out.

[00:27:13] Throw the height out.

[00:27:15] And throw the good shape out.

[00:27:17] Throw all that bullshit out.

[00:27:18] Just be open to meeting a good guy who's at a steady job.

[00:27:23] You know.

[00:27:25] You know, you know, he's good height.

[00:27:27] You know, average height or whatever.

[00:27:29] Maybe he's shorter than normal.

[00:27:31] And maybe he's, you know, a little chubby or whatever.

[00:27:34] He doesn't have to be in great, great, great shape.

[00:27:37] And see how that works out for you.

[00:27:38] I guarantee you that you'd be surprised how, you know, quickly when you throw all that bullshit out.

[00:27:46] How you all of a sudden will gravitate towards good men.

[00:27:54] All right.

[00:27:55] I answered your question, Carol.

[00:27:59] Send me a picture of you.

[00:28:00] I want to see how you look and see.

[00:28:06] Oh, my goodness.

[00:28:08] Okay.

[00:28:09] Paul.

[00:28:10] The next one from Paul.

[00:28:12] I'm a black male in my late 40s.

[00:28:15] I come to the conclusion that the sisters are crazy.

[00:28:20] My family is against me dating another race.

[00:28:26] What should I do?

[00:28:28] Well, Paul, if you're in your 40s.

[00:28:31] I would recommend sometimes families are good in a lot of ways.

[00:28:36] But sometimes families are bad in a lot of ways.

[00:28:40] I know a lot of pretty women who are teachers or people that I knew in my church or whatever.

[00:28:50] And when they were younger in their prime, they're very beautiful, very fine, very sexy.

[00:28:55] You name it.

[00:28:56] They were some of the most beautiful women on this planet.

[00:29:00] But for a lot of reasons, you know, they're looking for guys with six figures or six, five or whatever, whatever the case may be.

[00:29:13] Or, you know, a lot of them.

[00:29:15] You know, that's for example, they just say they're Italian.

[00:29:18] And a lot of them maybe like a brother, you know, or maybe like the Asian dude or Hispanic dude or whatever.

[00:29:28] So, you know, like I know in Miami back when I was little, you know, it's a melting pot.

[00:29:36] You had Italians and Irishmen or whatever, but it's not like New York.

[00:29:41] Right.

[00:29:43] Or New York have little Italy and little, you know, you know, what's another one?

[00:29:52] The Ireland and all this other shit where there's a lot of that.

[00:29:56] There's a whole community of Italian Americans.

[00:30:03] So I say that to say this, chances are you meeting an Italian guys probably wasn't good.

[00:30:10] Right.

[00:30:11] So a lot of those earlier families, I'm Italian, but it could be any family, you know, white, black.

[00:30:20] So they're very strict.

[00:30:22] They're very strict and they didn't want their kids dating outside of the race.

[00:30:28] They were old school.

[00:30:30] So if you go to a black school, a black family, they wanted their daughters and sons to marry a black woman or black man.

[00:30:37] Same with Italians.

[00:30:38] They wanted their daughters to bring home an Italian guy.

[00:30:43] Right.

[00:30:44] Same with white men, white families.

[00:30:46] They wanted their daughters to bring home a white guy and vice versa.

[00:30:50] So it wasn't a lot of.

[00:30:52] I mean, you had some, but it was very difficult.

[00:30:57] I mean, you had some people who were married to date outside of the race because a lot of families didn't go for that shit.

[00:31:01] If you've seen the movie Jungle Fever, just watch that shit.

[00:31:05] And that's what I'm talking about.

[00:31:09] But what the fuck was I saying?

[00:31:12] OK, so a lot of I know a lot of pretty women who.

[00:31:17] Were beautiful and they, you know, they didn't have, for example, I know one that was Italian.

[00:31:24] And, you know, there wasn't many Italian men, but she couldn't take a non-Italian man.

[00:31:33] To her home to meet dad and mom.

[00:31:37] So, you know, as a result, now, you know, the years passed and they passed, passed, passed.

[00:31:44] Now she's old and she's alone.

[00:31:49] And I know a lot of women like that who actually dug other guys, but they know they can take those guys home to mom and dad.

[00:31:59] And, you know, they look around, they're old, they're old maids now.

[00:32:04] And they're miserable.

[00:32:06] And they're lonely.

[00:32:08] And that's sometimes you have to live for yourself.

[00:32:12] I really hate to say that because everyone wants their family to like their wife or their family to like their husband, you know.

[00:32:22] So it's a bad situation when you're married to someone and your family don't like them.

[00:32:28] That's a bad situation.

[00:32:31] Especially for some bullshit like color, you know, the skin.

[00:32:35] But sometimes you have to live for you.

[00:32:38] You know, you fall in love with someone and they're from a different race.

[00:32:44] And then you would help your family get on board.

[00:32:48] But if they don't, I hate to say it like this, but fuck them.

[00:32:53] Because what's going to happen.

[00:32:56] You're going to grow up one day.

[00:32:58] And then when I say grow up, you're going to get older one day.

[00:33:01] You're going to be old and then you can't get anyone.

[00:33:05] You can't get anyone anymore.

[00:33:08] And then you're going to be old and you're going to be alone.

[00:33:11] And your family going to be gone.

[00:33:13] Your dad going to be passed on.

[00:33:15] Your mom going to be passed on.

[00:33:17] Your sister's going to be old as hell.

[00:33:19] Your brothers, if you have them, they're going to be old.

[00:33:22] If you're the only child, you'll be by yourself.

[00:33:25] So they're going to be gone.

[00:33:28] And you're going to be alone because you listen to your family.

[00:33:34] You know, so I don't think no one should ever do that.

[00:33:39] You know, it's one thing, you know, you hope your family is on board with who you choose to have a relationship and marry.

[00:33:48] But if they're not on board, fuck them.

[00:33:53] Because you don't want to have to live with them.

[00:33:55] So you don't want a situation where you get in.

[00:33:59] You look around, you're old.

[00:34:00] Now you can't get anyone.

[00:34:02] Your mom gone.

[00:34:03] Your dad gone.

[00:34:04] Everybody's gone.

[00:34:05] And you're there by yourself.

[00:34:07] No kids.

[00:34:12] So, Paul, I would recommend that if you are dating a woman and you're in your 40s already.

[00:34:19] You're in your 40s.

[00:34:20] You look around, you're being in your 60s.

[00:34:23] So if you're in your 40s and you're digging a woman that's in another race and your family not digging her, well, you have to make a decision.

[00:34:29] I hate to say it again.

[00:34:31] But as far as your family go, fuck them.

[00:34:35] That's you.

[00:34:36] You don't want to be in a situation where 20 years from now, when you are in your 60s or your 70s, you're looking around and that girl who you, you know, that you refuse to go and have a relationship with because of your family.

[00:34:52] Now your family's gone.

[00:34:54] Your dad passed on.

[00:34:55] Your mom passed on.

[00:34:57] Your sisters and brothers, if you have any, they're old.

[00:35:00] Now you old.

[00:35:02] You can't get anyone now.

[00:35:03] Now you're all alone.

[00:35:04] You have no kids.

[00:35:06] And now what?

[00:35:07] You'll be wishing like, damn, I should have got with her.

[00:35:11] I should have got with Trisha 30 years ago.

[00:35:14] I should have got with her.

[00:35:16] That's what you'll be thinking.

[00:35:18] So to answer your question, Paul, yes, I think you should go ahead and date that woman and marry her if you love her.

[00:35:26] Hopefully your family get on board.

[00:35:28] If they don't, fuck them.

[00:35:31] It's your life.

[00:35:35] All right.

[00:35:38] Next one.

[00:35:43] Angela.

[00:35:46] You know what?

[00:35:47] I'm going to say these for the next episode.

[00:35:50] I'm going to say these because he's pretty, pretty good.

[00:35:54] I'm going to say these for the next episode.

[00:35:56] All right.

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