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[00:00:30] This episode was inspired from a black reality dating show that I watch, Ready to Love.
[00:00:53] I've been watching from the beginning, Tommy Miles is the host and it puts about 10 or 12 black women and men together on a location.
[00:01:05] They have dates, they get to know each other.
[00:01:12] They have different scenarios each week and they eliminate each week.
[00:01:22] I want it to every year when it gets down to them having a getaway at a house.
[00:01:33] A same scenario happens and it made me think how I would handle it in that situation, especially since I considered going on a dating show.
[00:01:46] If you have your eye on one person, would you entertain others just to test the waters or would you stick with that one person who peeks your interest the most?
[00:02:07] Tommy wants people to test the waters and make sure that that person is the one.
[00:02:14] Being in a love triangle or a love square, especially towards the end of the journey seems a bit greedy and inconsistent and I don't know if I would want someone who felt the need to explore like that.
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[00:02:57] Let's say you were dating, we're all single, we're not married, I get it.
[00:03:05] I guess in the real world there's no different than me dating more than one guy.
[00:03:13] However, if I found one who checked out all the boxes if you will, I'd have no reason to entertain anyone else.
[00:03:24] That's just me but every year they have someone like this year, they had a guy and I thought that he and this one lady were amazing together.
[00:03:37] But then the later it got and of course it's for TV but that's just a big because it happens.
[00:03:44] The later it got in the season he was entertaining other women as well.
[00:03:53] And it made her feel away because she was consistent, you know.
[00:03:58] She was intentional and he wanted to they get into house
[00:04:05] and he was entertaining the other women.
[00:04:08] So she felt away about that and I don't blame her.
[00:04:12] Outside I, you too knowing that we thought that we had something.
[00:04:17] And I'm not a jealous person but it's like if we both have it, you know, we both are supposed to...
[00:04:27] You know, we're looking for love and it just doesn't seem like you would be looking for love if you are all of a sudden entertaining other people.
[00:04:40] So I'm curious to know what some of my listeners would do in that situation.
[00:04:47] If you had a chance to date multiple people and you found your one, at least you think you do.
[00:04:55] You guys have so much in common and chemistry is amazing.
[00:04:58] But then other people came into play.
[00:05:02] Would you test to see how it would be with them?
[00:05:05] Even though you had a great thing, okay.
[00:05:07] You want to see if you can get a great thing with someone else that's hard.
[00:05:10] I got to tell you, it's hard for me to meet multiple people that offer...
[00:05:17] That give me that spark.
[00:05:20] So I wouldn't want to test the waters. If I find my one, I'm good.
[00:05:24] Like, you know, if you choose to...
[00:05:27] Then you're not the one for me because then it'll make me wonder if we did get in a relationship.
[00:05:34] How would you be?
[00:05:36] So if you're like that now, I don't know if I would entertain it.
[00:05:39] So it's going to be interesting to see how this ends.
[00:05:42] I hope they end up together.
[00:05:44] But then too, it's like if you're being wishy-washy now, how would you be when we actually do get off the air and get a real thing going?
[00:05:56] You can contact me at Dre's Point of U at Yahoo.com if you watch this show or if you want to tell me what you would do.
[00:06:03] I'm curious.
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[00:06:14] As always, I thank you for listening.